Simple Guide to Maintain Relationships

Each successful relation, be it girlfriend-boyfriend or a simple friendship or a family relation, can only be sustained if it has:

Movement

Stability

Any successful relation is all about maintaining movement and stability.

Relation requires stability to weather the storms which can threaten the bond.

Relation requires movement to prevent stagnation and to carry the bond through problems and issues.

The responsibility lies on the people involved in the relation to take care of the above.

How to provide stability and maintain the movement. That is the key to maintaining a relation.

If you feel that your relation with someone is not going as well as it should be, try and figure out what is lacking. Whether it is the stability or the movement.

Many times you may be involved in a relation which is lacking one of the above. It may be that the two people are not compatible or a relation may not be feasible if the two people involved in it, taken together cannot provide movement and stability. This can happen if say two people involved are only capable of providing stability or movement but not both.

This doesn't mean you break the relation. It may just mean that you should have realistic expectations from it.