Saturday, January 14, 2006

Want VS Need

All big questions can be resolved into a problem of Wants VS Needs.
If you are in love with more than one girl then decide which girl you want and which girl you need. Always go after the one you want. Because needs are dictated by the brain.
Needs are practical. You need food, water and air. You need to sleep.

Love is anything BUT practical. Love goes against everything practical. Imagine if Romeo had been 'practical'. The story would have ended by Romeo ignoring Juliet coz he knew it just wasn't
practical for them to fall for each other.

Therefore when you fall in love go after the girl you want and not the girl(s) you need.

On a lighter note I was taking tips from a friend of mine on how to woo this one girl and here is what she said:

honey_blossom0: actually if i woo her i have better chances than u

The scary thing is... she might be right! :D

Wednesday, January 11, 2006


This was sent to me by a close friend.  Posted by Picasa


Me and Vaibhav Posted by Picasa


Left to Right: Vaibhav, Vibhore and Adesh at the Intercontinental.  Posted by Picasa

Monday, January 09, 2006

What is love?

On Monday (09/01/2006) I was asked if I know what the word 'love' means.

My first thought was 'looks like you don't read my blogs' coz sometimes it feels that I am not doing a Ph.D. in Evolutionary Computing (yawn!) but in Love, Life and Relationships (sort of like a triple doctorate).

But I just answered "Yes I do".

I do know the meaning of love. Love is Sacrifice. Love is giving your lover freedom. Love is not wanting.
Love... exists... it doesnt need to be... created.

Monkey!


Whos the monkey! Me and Arti at Stone Lounge. Posted by Picasa

It was an evening of bloody mary(s) and long island iced tea(s). Of things shared about the past.
It was a time of new beginnings and forging of bonds.
An evening of 'confidence building measures' through 'retained questions' which were answered to increase the 'synergy'.